This is so brilliant! We never have to settle, but it’s not the framing of settling that you might think. We are so powerful in our ability to “create” or “manifest” in our life that using these tools can shift whole situations – and the situations need not be messy. We stay connected to our Spirit Team & Source, share from the Heart, do the “work” the JOGs describe and Spirit/the path of our Destiny takes care of the rest. So brilliant, so beautiful. Enjoy this! Xo
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There is something all of you need to know. It is something you often forget but of which serves you at the highest possible level. It is this core truth – you did not come here for anything less than your fullest desires. You see, many of you forget this and so you work as best as you can to make things, situations, and people work for you and acclimate to them when they are not actually the most aligned experiences of your life experience. You are trying to force, you are trying to make work that which really in its fullest expression is not even close to being aligned for you. You may make excuses for the person or opportunities or whatever it is – but at the core of you, you know you can do better.
And we are here to tell you, you can do better.
If there is anything in your life experience that is not matching up for you, that does not on all levels or cylinders feel like a big, fat yes, then there are some adjustments to be made.
Now typically, you would then say or feel that you must discard said opportunity, person or aspect and we say even taking that step is too premature. You are not even ready to go there yet. What you must first do is what Heather would call the alchemical process and what we would call only the “work” ever worth doing – preparing your vibration, your mindset, your body, your energies for the fullness of your desire.
Good enough will never do for any of you. “Almost” what you desire won’t work either. But you get impatient, you get antsy and so you dive in because well, some of you figure “it’s close enough”. And we’re telling you “close enough” will never fully satisfy you, it will always leave you longing for more.
It will always feel like something is missing, because something is missing. And not necessarily in the other person or in the opportunity – but in you.
Because you forgot the most important piece of information you could ever hope to know and that is that you are a Divine being and you do not have to ever receive less than your full desire. Nowhere in your life contract does it say, “settle for less than what you fully desire”. You forgot that you, you alone have the ability to shift yourself into circumstances and events and relationships that will yield to you your utmost desires. You and you alone have the ability to co-create a life that truly lights you up on all levels. And unless you’re doing that you are not living the fullest of this life experience.
Not settling does not mean adjusting your desires. It means aligning to your desires. And then holding to them so firmly that no matter who shows him/herself to you, no matter what opportunities arise, you hold steady in that knowing of what you truly desire and what is fully yours to experience. And this can be what you would describe as challenging especially if the person or situation or circumstance or relationship is not behaving in the way you fully desire it to in its current form.
But that is always going to be the case – there will always be something that needs some fine-tuning or adjustment but the fine-tuning or adjustment isn’t the person/place or thing – it’s you. It’s you consciously reconnecting back to what you truly desire and from that place re-aligning to what is truly you.
For example: In the midst of something not unfolding in the way you truly desire:
Go into meditation, journal, utilize whatever self-care tools put you into a good feeling place, an aligned place. Then, ask your guides & angels of the Highest Light (otherwise known as your Spirit Team) to make known to you what you desire in this particular area that is “up” for you. Allow whatever comes through or pops in to come in. And let us be clear here, you are not just awaiting someone (i.e. your Spirit Team/Source) to pop in the information for you, you are a cooperative, co-creative component here. You allow yourself to tune in and imagine what would be better than where you are at right now.
Then, once you lock into what that would be, you say with firmness and clarity and conviction, “I now call this into my experience. I now allow this to be my true reality.” And then you spend any time you would normally go into ruminating on the situation as it currently is and place that focused time and energy on what you aligned with in your more relaxed and open state.
When you have to interact with person/place/thing that is currently not in a state you desire, you call in your Spirit Team, you tap, you breathe deep breaths, you ask to see them through the eyes of Source and you walk into every encounter with them from that perspective, from that place. And you let what needs to occur to occur without your reactivity or interference or desire to control. Just try it out and see what happens.
And if it still doesn’t quite meet what you are intending, you just keep coming back to what would fill you up more. You come back to your truth and you never ever, ever allow yourself to settle for anything less than what feels most joyful to you.
What does it really mean that term settle anyway? It implies that it stops, that you stop and that when you stop it shouldn’t be on something that is just “okay”. Well, we’re here to tell you that you are on an eternal journey whether you are currently in the physical or non-physical and so what is most important is for you to have daily connection to what would light you up the most and spend conscious time with it, reflecting on it. And then as you make this a regular habit, fewer and fewer aspects of your life have to be off or out of balance or out of alignment as you would call them.
You do have the ability and support to discern what will fit you the best from where you currently are and then to adjust course first in your thought, first in your daydreams and then allow what wants to adjust and align from there to do so.
But you never ever have to sit in any situation or relationship or whatever it is and say, “this is mine, I just have to suck it up and deal with it.” No, you do not. In every moment and in every situation you have the opportunity to choose something that feels better to you. And sometimes that is going to be taking a nap or going for a walk or it’s going to be getting a mentor or taking a class or reading a book – but in every moment you can do something to shift the frequency of wherever you are at if it is not feeling good to you. And the harder it feels to do this is just information to let you know that you’ve got a lot of stories going on that are not letting you feel as magnificent as you truly are. And that’s okay. From that place you can decide how you want to proceed, you can decide what tools you need to engage to allow yourself a greater leap, a greater shift, a bigger vantage point to jump into.
We know you must think that we think that you are struggling too much, as we highlight these areas. But we know this is simply par for the course. This is part of being a Spirit in a body. It’s what you signed up for. And it’s what we signed up for to support you in this way, with these messages so that you need not go at it alone. So that you know with certainty that you are supported and loved and have a myriad of resources to living a life that truly serves you.
And so it is.
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Loving you so! XoHK & The JOGs