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TOP 3 ways to navigate this month:

  • Lots of water to support heart-opening processing.
  • Increased Meditation and Prayer time to stay connected to your Higher Wisdom while your heart is breaking open.
  • Clear, clear, clear – sage, sea salt baths and emotional support tools so that you are not getting stuck in the ick that comes up.


Love & many Heart-opening Blessings to you! Xo


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So, now we know – Spiritual Partnerships are the new frontier, it is part of the New Reality that each of us is being asked to co-create during this incredibly amplified time in consciousness – whether we are single or already in partnership*.

In fact to help us all conceptualize this more fully, I’ve been shown that there are specific relationship models for each dimension of consciousness (duh, right?!). Once I was shown this I wondered how it had never occurred to me before that this was how partnership works!

And so, we are no longer talking about or focused on romantic relationship because it makes financial sense or because we want children and the “clock” is ticking or for the sake of not being alone or because we are “compatible” or even because we have “chemistry” or even because we are “twin flames”.

The above have all formerly served as reasons to be in relationship in times past and it is no longer in alignment to enter into partnership for any of the above reasons.

Only alignment with who we really are and allowing that alignment to lead us to our Beloved will do for us any longer.

The type of partnership we are talking about is something far, far deeper than what we mentioned above and thus far more aligned with who we really are. Which means, partnership can be a more satisfying and fulfilling experience.

Notice we didn’t say that it will be a “perfect” experience (because nothing and everything that’s occurring is perfect through the eyes of Source!), but rather a deeply nourishing and supportive of you and this one in co-creating a New Reality unlike anything either of you have experienced before nor could experience without one another.

Let us explain more fully so that you can check in and see where you’re at currently if you are in partnership now and where you’ve been. This guide is helpful to seeing where previous relationships have been vibrating at so as to witness more fully your own personal expansion and evolution.

Below is an outline of Relationship Models & their Corresponding Levels of Consciousness


3D consciousness – physical-only, rooted in fear/scarcity/lack/survival:

**Traditional marriages with traditional “gender” roles based on, well gender, not energetics. This model carries forward what was done previously by your ancestors and does not allow space for the growth and evolution of one another and the partnership. This is the general energetic structure that all marriages enter. I highly encourage that if you’re getting married or if you are married you bring in a trusted energy medicine / quantum physics practitioner to work on your marriage matrix so that the relationship can ascend into a Spiritual Partnership. Otherwise, once “married” this institutional matrix of marriage is activated and partners often unconsciously revert to traditional roles of husband and wife, rooted in the past, including previous ancestral marriages. This is why you often see couples who have been together for years, break-up/divorce after getting married. They entered the Marriage Matrix but did not shift these frequencies into a Higher Vibration than what their previous ancestors carried and so the relationship then implodes.

**Getting married to have children, because the “clock” is ticking or because a pregnancy ensued.

**Living together/dating because it’s convenient, the sex is “good” and we “like the same things.”

**Wound-mates rooted in survival consciousness (i.e., getting pregnant to “keep” a man, striving to be prosperous solely to “support” the family, etc)


4D consciousness – psychic / astral realm, Manifestor attitude, “I can work with energy and ‘make’ things happen”:

**Twin Flame unions – allegedly experienced in one’s last lifetime, these relationships consistently aggravate and highlight pain stories and patterns and are often far too overwhelming for anyone to stay in for too long. These unions are based on triggers and previous lifetime wounding.

**Karmic Soulmates – these are ones we have shared many lifetimes with and feel a karmic compulsion (or addiction) to be with. Being with them is painful because at least one partner is unable to commit or honor the connection fully. There is a lot of back and forth in these partnerships and is very similar to a Twin Flame connection in terms of dramas and pain stories.

**Wound-mates rooted in “we have to be together because we’ve shared previous lifetimes together!” or because “we went through a lot of pain together” or any story that justifies being together based on trauma-bonding of any kind. These relationships usually carry 1 or 2 primary wound triggers and they enter your life to bring this wound to the surface so it can be evolved forward. These relationships usually do not last very long and can usually be completed without back and forth coming together and breaking apart like the above two listed.

It’s also important to note that if you are in a relationship like any of the above and your partnership is thriving and bringing more Love to the planet, then that is ALL that matters. We are sharing this information to support a greater understanding of past Loves and/or a current relationship that is struggling to continue on. We want you to have all of the tools you need to thrive as you call forth your Spiritual Partner and/or support your current partnership in ascending to a new level of alignment.


5D consciousness – co-creative journey with Spirit/non-physical, rooted in Love, Peace & Prosperity:

**Spiritual Partnership – a partnership that has a foundation of spiritual practice, connection to The Divine and honoring all things as Spirit (fellow humans, animals, the planet, all material items, food, etc). This partnership is about each individual living their Destiny as well as the couple living their partnered Destiny all with the intent of bringing more Love to the greater whole through the vibrations and manifestations of Love, Peace & Prosperity.

**Sacred Union – this is a beautiful term to honor a lifelong committed partnership that embraces all of the above aspects of Spiritual Partnership through sacred ritual (we may call this a wedding ritual) and includes the honoring of the partnership through rings of commitment – which activate the sacred heart lines – the Egyptians taught us this! on the left (feminine) hand, ring finger in a sacred ceremony.

**Premise: “We are together because we daily choose to be through our Divine connection with Higher Consciousness and through our own deeper knowing that this is our lifelong partner to ascend with while in this body.”

Everything during this time in consciousness is being Ascended, meaning it is coming into greater alignment with our Destiny and what will serve us and all in Soul-satisfying and fulfilling ways.


So take a moment to check in – can you see where some of your previous relationships were at? Where is your current partnership at?


If you are single or in partnership, can you feel the resonance with co-creating (through your relationship with your Higher Wisdom – which is Source/Higher Power, your Higher Self & your Guides & Angels of the Highest Light) a 5th Dimensional partnership?

Take time to sit with this in meditation. Then spend some time journaling about what the term Sacred Union or Spiritual Partnership means to you. What does it mean to you to have your Higher Wisdom guide you to your Beloved and to then consciously co-create a partnership that serves you both as individuals as well as the greater collective consciousness (which naturally occurs when we focus on living our Destiny and being of service)?

The JOGs showed me so clearly a planet filled with every being in Loving union with their Spiritual Partner. With the couples core focus not on procreation (please note: there isn’t anything wrong with procreation, AND we have evolved beyond the time of this being the primary focus for partnership), not on amassing wealth/money, not on building an “empire” but on bringing more Love, Peace & Prosperity to the planet through sacred Loving, and through supporting and honoring the planet, all living beings and one another.

For those who are not currently in partnership, there is now before you an incredible opportunity to make this your intention in what you are calling forth. This will look differently for everyone and manifest in a number of surprising and delightful manners. What will matter most is the foundation for this partnership is a mutual desire to create more Love, Peace & Prosperity on the planet through the Love Union and through daily actions and areas of focus.

For those already in partnership, it’s a tremendous opportunity to clean up any energy leaks in your partnership, areas where you or both of you are off path in your partnership by putting attention and energy into “getting” and achieving rather than how to be conduits for Love, Peace & Prosperity for yourselves, your relationship and for the greater whole.

What an incredible time it is to be alive on this planet! We look forward to hearing about your experience of ascending into Spiritual Partnership and all of the rewards it brings to you and to all.

In Divine Love & Miracles,





*Already partnered? Learn even more about elevating your partnership here.

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We are in it.

Our Ascension Process continues to…well, Ascend – most often at an accelerated pace and with it new guidance is emerging about how we can be part of the change that is needed during this time.

When we say “be part of the change,” we mean answering and living in this question:

“How can I live in and emulate the Love, Peace and Prosperity that I innately am (and that all innately are) so that this vibration of Love, Peace & Prosperity can be more readily available and accessible to more beings and thus support the upleveling of our collective consciousness that is needed at this time?”

One of the major responses coming from my connection to Higher Consciousness as of late has been this: Spiritual Partnership is the new frontier.

For me personally, this also means my more fully embracing my role as a Love Elder for existing couples and as a Spiritual Matchmaker for singles.

As many of you know, I have worked with hundreds of couples and have been matching clients and friends for over 7 years. In fact, I just matched a friend when I put her in our prayer triangle ritual for 7 days straight with the request that she meet her husband. And then, voila! She’s engaged! The power of my ability to align others to their Divine Loves is mind-blowing, even for me!

It has truly become a “bonus gift” I didn’t even know that I had until it started happening.

A few days after it was shared with me by my Higher Wisdom that I am to focus more on offering this level of work, a reporter reached out to me (totally unprompted, I had never even written for this media outlet before!) saying she heard I was a “spiritual matchmaker” – a term I have never used before – and asked if I would be willing to be interviewed for an article she was writing. A week later, another reporter reached out to me with the same request, again citing me as a “spiritual matchmaker.”

This is the Miraculous thing about living a Spirit-Led Life, Divine guidance will ALWAYS be confirmed in synchronistic fashion to let you know that the information you’ve been given is right in alignment with your Destiny.

Speaking of my Destiny…

Many, many years ago an intuitive astrologer told me that I was here to get my PhD in Love & Relationships through my own experiences and then I would share this with others, and boy was she right.

I’ve experienced the traditional relationship marriage model and gender roles, I’ve dated across gender lines, I’ve been in the tumult of Twin Flame union and the at times agony of karmic Soulmate Love. I’ve Loved so deeply and had my heart ripped open by Love, I’ve had amazingly mystical experiences with Love (my The Quest fiction book series shares many of these occurrences from my early 30’s), I’ve experienced incredible romantic gestures that opened my heart & Soul.

I’ve had The Divine show me exactly who my partner is, in fact, I’ve seen Golden Light around every individual I’ve ever Loved and been in relationship with (showing me that Divine relationship is always a Divine appointment!).

I’ve also read pretty much every book available on the topic of Love as well as Orgasmic Meditation and sacred sexuality. I’ve taken a ton of courses on the topics of Love & Partnership from The Gottmans to Harville Hendrix to Gay & Katie Hendricks to Nicole Moore to Gina DeVee & Gabrielle Bernstein to Mama Gena to Marianne Williamson to SARK to Tony Robbins.

I’ve had profound healing experiences led by John of God in Brazil, Dr. Janet Galipo, Dr. John Veltheim, Dr. Robert Kellum and his Beloved Donna (they work together as a couple, #swoon) and most recently the saint Amma.

All of this has been fueled by this profound desire to not only understand Love & Partnership but to see it be co-created in a way that is in true alignment with one’s Destiny.

I’m not talking about relationship for the sake of relationship – anyone can do that, anyone can be with someone to be with someone. What has impassioned me has been Divine appointments for Sacred Relating and Sacred Partnership and how those unfold in alignment with our Divine Destiny.

I’ve come to see and realize how every Divine Love Appointment / relationship is a Sacred and Holy event all aimed at allowing you to more fully embody the true you and live your Destiny at the most aligned level.

For me, all of this has enlivened my ability to be a Spiritual Matchmaker and Love Elder (a term coined in Jeff Brown’s book An Uncommon Bond), and I’m thrilled to be able to support so many on their Love journeys.

I’ve witnessed as women who haven’t dated in upwards of 8 years and one who at 40 years old had never had a relationship then met their Beloved after only a few sessions with me – one of which married her Beloved a year later, along with a couple who after 30 years of marriage was ready for divorce until a session with me turned it all around and they were back in Love “like teenagers.”

I’ve witnessed as couples in distress over lack of sex have been reunited with a deeply passionate connection, I’ve supported my stubbornly single clients in dating in a way that allows them to move past their old stuck patterns and into partnerships that lead them to deep, peaceful Love, cohabitation and even Sacred Union marriage.

These are True Love partnerships. They are not settling or brushing things under the rug so as not to cause a fuss.

These are Spiritual Partnerships rooted in the core of who each one is so that each one can bring more Light to this world and thus through their partnership more Love, Peace & Prosperity now exists in the world.

I am elated that this is the next frontier for us all – experiencing these Divine appointments of Spiritual Partnership or elevating our current relationships into these areas – and that my work will now place a greater focus on this.

So, why Spiritual Partnership as the New Frontier for this time in Consciousness?

We were told not so long ago that it was time for existing couples to upgrade their partnerships to the 5th Dimension (which is rooted in Love, Peace & Prosperity), therefore making spiritual consciousness a priority so that they could emulate this Love, Peace & Prosperity that is so Divinely needed at this time to support themselves and the greater whole.

In my inquiry with The JOGs and all of the Highest Light I have asked repeatedly, “What is needed during this time so that all Living Beings can live in Love, Peace & Prosperity?”

Instantly I was shown all living beings coming together in Spiritual Partnership with their Beloved and this being the antidote to the pain that has been so prevalent and is so prevalent for so many.

After all, it’s pretty hard to be fueled by anger and resentment and act out violently when you are deeply in Love, experiencing daily synchronicities that are guiding you on a path that continues to unfold miraculously in each moment, while having connected, sacred sexual union with your Beloved and therefore being inspired to give your gifts in new ways and ascend more fully into who you really are.

I now include in my daily prayer ritual asking that all Living Beings be united with their Beloved or Great Love (if their Beloved has already made his/her transition back into non-physical a Great Love is what’s next, The JOGs outlined a general relationship “structure” that explains all of this – this is featured in our book A Life of Magic). I encourage you to include this in your prayers as well if you feel so called.

I will be sharing more with you about all of this, what it looks like and how you can align with, nurture, expand and prosper in your Spiritual Partnership so stay tuned.

I look forward to many more matchings of Divine Loves and celebrating many more Sacred Unions with you!

In Divine Love Always & Forevermore,



P.S. If you would like to experience Spiritual Matchmaking, you can learn more and sign-up here.

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“All you need is Love.”
“What the world needs now, is Love, sweet Love.”

At first glance, these words might seem like corny song lyrics, but upon further exploration you may also find an innate truth. A truth that is “up” for your and my assessment so that we can hear the deeper call of recent world events.

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Loves – we are living in one of the holiest of times and in this time you are being extended an important invitation that I talk about here, giving you specific actions to take now to support you. I also provide an update about what is happening for me as I too go to a deeper and more holy place in my unfolding.
Love & blessings, Xo


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Perhaps you’ve noticed it – and if you read this Love Blog regularly you most certainly have – we are currently living at a time where the opportunity exists for us to usher in a whole New Paradigm of what it means to be in a body and be alive on this planet.

And while it may appear we are in the Twilight Zone with a revisit to the Nixon era on steroids, we are actually living within a powerful, sacred – we are calling it holy even – time of opportunity.

A time when we as individuals must answer the following question:

Will we continue to fight the existing systems and their collapse or will we turn our attention to creating the way creation was always meant to be – a joint venture between us and our Higher Wisdom (Source, Higher Self & Spirit Team) and our connection to our Divine Planet so that we can co-create from a grounded, anchored, Spirit-centered place?

It’s become apparent through my connection to Higher Consciousness (and I’m sure many of you are receiving the exact same message as it’s available to everyone connected to the Highest Light!) that we will all be best served by keeping our focus off the implosion of traditional systems and to instead tune our focus to our specific Dharma or Destiny – the work and the gifts we are here to give so as to co-create a New Paradigm of reality that will serve our Souls, our Planet, and the Souls of all.

While that might seem like a tall order, it’s absolutely the call of this time and it’s what we’re being asked to do.

Fortunately, when you make your focus and aim to fulfill your own Destiny, you automatically are serving the Planet and All-That-Is.

Even so, I find that we often feel overwhelmed with a task such as creating a “New Paradigm.” And so, below are specific steps you can take, beginning today, to help support this shifting into your New Reality which will then create a New Paradigm for the greater whole.

To create a New Paradigm of Money/Finances:

  • Move your money into community-based banks and/or credit unions.
  • Move your IRAs and 401ks to socially responsible funds and investment options.
  • Purchase local whenever possible.
  • Grow some of your own food, if possible. If not possible, join a CSA to support a local farm.
  • Only have credit cards from socially conscious financial institutions.
  • Vote with your dollars, which means spend your money on what you want to see more of in your/our world. Support small / independent businesses and those who you feel a Soul resonance with.
  • Connect with 1 or more organizations that are spreading Peace, Love & abundance in the world that you can regularly support with your dollars and if possible volunteer time.

To create a New Paradigm of Education:

  • Move your child/ren out of public educational systems and into alternative or charter educational models.
  • Join forces with your local neighborhood or community and start a group home school program.
  • College? Find alternative forms of study that train you in what you desire so that you can immediately put your skills into action. Creatives – let go of the false belief that you need a specific type of college education to write or make art or be part of any creative services. If your path requires a formal education apply for every scholarship available to you and get benefactors who will fund your education, some to pay back and some where the funds are tax-deductible (for them), and a gift (for you).

To create a New Paradigm of Healthcare:

“The doctor of the future will give no medication, but will interest his patients in the care of the human frame, diet and in the cause and prevention of disease.” -Thomas Edison

  • Only use Western medicine for experiences such as broken limbs or in extreme cases surgery or if your Higher Wisdom directly guides you to use Western medicine for a specific purpose.
  • Create a support team of 2-3 health practitioners that you have a deep connection with. Options for these practitioners can be acupuncture, naturopathic care, energy medicine, therapist or specialized healing practitioners. You can receive community acupuncture at reduced costs and attend a naturopathic school for reduced cost care if you are concerned about financial costs. Check with your accountant to see if you can write off these costs on your taxes as well.
  • Eat organic and local foods. When having to choose between local and organic, choose local as it has a larger sustainable benefit than foods that must travel long distances. Stay away from processed foods and highly modified foods such as gluten, dairy, corn, soy and refined sugar.
  • Move your body everyday for at least 20 minutes in ways you enjoy.
  • Stretch 2-3 times a week and receive – at least monthly – a massage or experience hot tubs and soothing saunas – all to support your body’s connective tissue in remaining supple and flexible.
  • Come together with your family and/or local community to work out a safe and sustainable plan for elderly Loved ones. Supporting our elderly Loved ones as they transition back into non-physical energy is a sacred and important part of this life unfolding.

To create a New Paradigm of Sustainability:

  • Switch to a hybrid (there are so many options for this!) or electric vehicle.
  • Change your electricity service to a renewable energy program.
  • Compost your food.
  • Stop using plastic bags, recycle all plastic that you do use, including bags.
  • Use reusable water bottles and coffee mugs.
  • When making purchases of any kind look for an option that is made with recycled products or can be recycled.
  • Opt out of buying plastic items whenever possible.
  • Reduce waste by donating unused items, recycling everything possible and composting. I cut my garbage output in half doing this! After all, the “away” that we are going to “throw” things to is not actually away – it’s right here – there’s only land and ocean on Earth available.
  • Bless your food before eating it. Bless the land your home sits on. Bless your Love Territory with a weekly ritual (see Ecstatic Union with The Divine in the supplemental section for the Love Territory ritual) to deepen your connection with Mother Earth.
  • Buy carbon offset credits for when you fly in an airplane or take other actions that have a negative impact on the Earth’s atmosphere.

To create a New Paradigm of Business:

  • Create YOUR way, don’t look to the publisher or record label or agent or booking agency or association or some other outside entity to validate your work as an artist, writer, singer/songwriter, painter, etc. Take your power back from these systems by self-funding and putting your work out into the world. There are many wayshowers doing this already including Chance the Rapper who won a GRAMMY and simply streamed his music for free. He created his music, his own way. Be an innovator and allow your connection to your Higher Wisdom to guide how you create in this world.
  • Break free of industry “standards” and use your connection with your Higher Wisdom to bring your gifts and work into the world. Try approaches that feel easeful and joyful to you. Let go of following the pack and creating the same thing everyone else is – use your innate and unlimited creativity to bring to the world what has never been brought before.
  • Let go of needing to be “approved” of or validated by outside entities for your work or business. Want to be published in a magazine or blog? Publish your own magazine or blog. Want to speak at a big conference? Start speaking on YouTube or another vehicle to bring your message. Want your music at a big festival? Start your own festival. It’s time to BE the change rather than looking to existing structures to do it for us.

To create a New Paradigm of Government:

Ruling and controlling others is unnatural, as is chaos and disorder. In an ideal aligned Universe, each individual would be rooted in their connection with the planet and with their Spirit, and therefore would take full responsibility for all actions and all experiences in their unfolding knowing that they would never harm another, themselves included.

Because we are not yet to that place, having structure is important. If you are one who feels your Destiny is to serve in a government-esque capacity, we ask you to search your heart and Soul for clarity about the New Reality that wishes to be co-created in this area of the Spirit in a body unfolding. And then we ask that you take the specific actions you are shown so that a New Reality can be birthed in this sector.

It is us, those of us reading these words and on this path, that are the wayshowers to the greater whole of what it looks like to live an aligned life filled with Peace, Love & Prosperity. We must first integrate the above ways of living in our own lives so the doors can continue to be opened for others and thus, so a New Paradigm can be birthed.

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We would Love to hear about your experiences in integrating these steps in your day to day life in the comments below.

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Happy Super New Moon in Taurus, alongside 4 planets in Retrograde (Mercury, Pluto, Saturn & Jupiter), cuz you know we like to go big!

Speaking of big, this is a big time for relationships…read on here…

We are in the midst of such a powerful time in consciousness, a time when we are being asked to bring all aspects of our lives into alignment with the 5th dimension, which means living in a spiritual consciousness fully, which means:

  • Understanding that the unseen/non-physical is more “real” than we ever imagined and that we can partner with the unseen/non-physical of the Highest Light to bring in miraculous co-creations.
  • Our primary operating systems are no longer rooted in 3D (fear/scarcity/survival, physical is all that’s real, very “traditional” male/female roles of the woman subservient to the man) or 4D  (psychic energy phenomenas, “magic” that is not clean/aligned, “I can control my reality through manipulating energy & other dimensions”, Twin Flame unions) – they are 5th dimensional – meaning they are anchored in Love, Peace & Prosperity.
  • All of our actions come from this deep knowing of Love, Peace & Prosperity as all that is truly real. We live without lack and in total abundance – regardless of physical manifestations. This is the dimension where spiritual partnerships exist. Where the focus is not about wounds and “healing” through triggers but rather 2 aligned beings growing together in Love, Peace & Prosperity alongside one another.

This current shift into 5D is showing up with a focus for our relationships and you may have noticed there is a lot shifting for couples – many couples you thought would never part ways (maybe yours included) are breaking up and if they are not breaking up, they are going through very, very bumpy times.

In addition more couples are coming together as the call from our Divine Planet is for more Beloveds to align to support this massive shift from the 3D to 5D. However, if couples come together without a foundation of a Spiritual Consciousness (5D), it’s a bumpy, bumpy ride.


Because it’s now time for both the Masculine* (those who identify as primary essence Masculine) and the Feminine* (those who identify as primary essence Feminine) to be balanced within their own energies and live more fully in the 5th dimension.

For so long the Feminine has primarily been leading the way on living in a spiritual consciousness and embodying higher dimensions while in a body. Massive gratitude and blessings to those aligned Masculine who have been doing this intensive emotional and spiritual work not simply in word but in action alongside us!

It is naturally more effortless for the Feminine and those balanced and connected to their Feminine energy to evolve in this way as Feminine energy is Spirit/Source energy. Feminine energy is designed to spiritually be tuned into Source and radiate this essence.

However, the Feminine has been unconsciously enabling the Masculine within herself and in her relationships by not allowing a true flow or union of the Masculine and Feminine energies to be balanced within her and within her relationships.

Often this will manifest as the Feminine energy making herself “smaller,” diminishing her spiritual, intuitive and emotional gifts out of scarcity and survival from old ancestral and previous lifetime programming (“I can’t survive without a man/the Masculine, so I should be grateful to have what I have and keep quiet!”) and thus she has tolerated and allowed herself to be in partnership with herself and with 3D & 4D partners rather than anchoring fully into the 5D and inviting her partner to do the same.

This is because the Feminine has forgotten this essential truth: Masculine energy is created to respond to Feminine energy and carry out the intuited Feminine vision. Masculine energy when aligned is always responding to the Feminine. In this way the Feminine must balance within herself these two energies and then fully embody her true essence in order for the Masculine “outside of her” to do the same.

Some expanded understanding here:

Every Spirit in a body is comprised of Masculine & Feminine energy with a primary Masculine or primary Feminine essence as their leading energy. And so it is of the utmost importance that the Masculine heals his wounds with Feminine energy – within himself and then in his relationships – and thus begins to work with his own intuitive abilities and emotions to bring himself into balance so that he too may co-create with non-physical energy and live from a foundation of Peace, Love & Prosperity, i.e. the 5th dimension.

And the same is true for the Feminine.

It’s important to note here that your partner’s expression of living in a spiritual consciousness may look much differently than yours, this is not about getting everyone to practice and experience The Divine / Source in the same manner.

What matters is that your partner is aware of non-physical energy and works with it in a way that aligns for him/her, and that your partner makes his/her decisions and takes action from the foundations of Love, Peace and Prosperity.

And so now it is time to invite our partners into a Spiritual or 5th dimension consciousness with us.

But first, we must check in to make sure we are there!

**Are we living in harmony with non-physical energy – Source, our Higher Self and our Guides & Angels of the Highest Light?**

**Are we following the guidance from our deeper Wisdom?**

**Are we living our lives in a foundation of Peace, Love & Prosperity and living the abundance and joy that we came for?**

**Are we honoring our Divine Planet and are we Loving and kind to all those who come into our space?**

There is no room for hypocrisy here, we want to be aligned in our Divine truth and then open the door for our partner as well.

Once we are solid in our commitment to the above and living as such, it’s then time to invite our partner to do the same.

Create a ritual for this before taking it to your partner
on the physical plane:

  • Create a sacred space for yourself with white sage burning, candles lit, soft music playing and you dressed in some of your most beautiful clothes. You may have fresh flowers or a plant present and fresh fruits on an altar in front of you.
  • Call in your Higher Wisdom – Source, your Higher Self, and all of your Guides & Angels of the Highest Light. Call in Jesus Christ & Mary Magdalene and any other Beloved couples that you resonate with.
  • Then begin to pray for your partnership to align into a Spiritual Partnership. The JOGs talk more about this in Ecstatic Union with The Divine under the Live in Love section, with a specific transmission about the new paradigm of relationship that we are talking about here. You may wish to read this transmission out loud during this ritual or silently to yourself.
  • Ask that your partnership expand and align into a Spiritual Partnership. Ask that you and your partner create rituals and take aligned actions together that support your growth as individuals and as a couple, that you both support sustainability and care for this Divine Planet, that you both support organizations and ways of being with your cash-money that creates more of a spiritual consciousness on the planet. Ask that your partner open up to his/her emotions and feel them as you also do the same, ask that your partner opens up to understanding the true nature of this reality and that your partner lives from a place of Love, Peace & Prosperity, leaving fear, scarcity and survival based actions, decisions and behaviors behind as you also do the same.
  • Ask that your partner be blessed with Peace, Love and Prosperity and that if it serves Divine Will for you two to continue together on this path living as Love, Peace & Prosperity that it flows with ease, grace and abundance.
  • Then ask that you release all attachments to how this manifests and allow the Divine unfolding for what wishes to occur to occur with ease, grace and abundance.
  • Thank your Higher Wisdom and all of the Beloveds that you called into this space for their support.
  • Meditate for 11 minutes to anchor in these prayers.
  • Sage yourself from head to toe after.
  • Take a sea salt bath after to clear yourself of any resistances or fears that arose as you performed this ritual.

Next, ask your Higher Wisdom to guide you to the appropriate time to have a conversation with your partner about stepping into living in a Spiritual or 5th Dimensional consciousness together.

You’ll want to make sure you have called in your Higher Wisdom to this conversation and have white sage burning before or after (or the whole time!) and have set the environment to be one of Love and sacredness.

Below is some language you can use to open this space up for your partner. It is important you tailor this for your particular situation knowing your partner in the way that only you do.

If your partner is very much rooted in 3D consciousness, you’ll want to invite him / her into therapy as a way to become aware of and comfortable with his/her emotions and intuitions.

If your partner is in 4D reality (like the “new age”) but has gotten stuck in a green juice-yoga-attending- “spiritual”-events-cycle but is not actually living from a spiritual consciousness, you’ll want to invite him/her to begin working with a spiritual mentor or counselor who can support him/her in not just talking the talk but actually living from the foundations of Spirit – which is Love, Peace & Prosperity.

“As you know my Love, our world and the collective consciousness is going through a powerful shift at this time. All of us are being asked to step up and live more fully who we really are in Love, Peace & Prosperity. I want that for us, our partnership and for you and I as individuals. I definitely feel this is something we can become stronger in so that all aspects of our lives are coming from a deeper foundation of spiritual alignment, Love, Peace & Prosperity. What do you think are some ways we can strengthen this for ourselves individually and as a couple?”

Open the space for your partner to think about this topic in a new way and offer his/her suggestions. You may also add the suggestion for beginning to see a therapist/healer for each of you as individuals and/or for you as a couple.

Then, when it feels appropriate, you can add, “I am fully committed to living in co-creation with my spiritual connection (again, use whatever words your partner will most resonate with) and living from a foundation where every decision and action I take is rooted in Peace, Love & Prosperity consciousness. Would you be willing to join me in this more fully by implementing what we’ve discussed here?”

This is a time of bringing all that has been out of alignment with who we really are – which is Peace, Love & Prosperity – back into alignment. Our relationships are an important area for this alignment that greatly adds to our expansion and joy in the world and thus our positive impact on the greater whole.

And that is why it’s so “up” for us at this time.

It is a time of great alignment with the 5D, with living from a spiritual construct. It’s a time of letting go of limiting paradigms of male-dominant/female-subservient 3D paradigms and Twin Flames and other 4D concepts that do not allow the full blossoming of who we really are to be made manifest while in a spiritual partnership.

It’s even silly to act as though this term “spiritual” is somehow outside of who we really are. Living as Love, Peace & Prosperity, in harmony and co-creation with non-physical energy is exactly how we are designed to live (which is why it feels so amazing when we do and then we call it Magic & Miracles but it’s really exactly how we are meant to live!).

May you and your relationship be blessed in True Love, lasting partnership and filled with Spirit – Peace, Love & Prosperity from this expanded understanding and ritual.

And so it is.



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*Anytime we use the terms Masculine and Feminine we are not talking about gender, we are talking about the energy one primarily identifies with. All Souls have both energies, with 1 as their primary leading energy. This can manifest in any gender identity.

Posted by Heather Kristian Strang in Uncategorized Read More

It’s tax season in the U.S. and that means many of us are writing checks to our government.

And we’re writing these checks as the U.S. is taking more and more military action. Interesting timing, wouldn’t you agree?

In fact, right here right now please offer up a prayer for Syria and all oppressed people in Syria and all oppressed ones throughout the world, including all of the areas within yourself that you have repressed and allowed oppression. May all beings – self included – remember who they truly are and may they be blessed in Peace, Love and abundance.

With 4 planets in Retrograde and a Full Moon on the night of April 10th and into the 11th – we’re all feeling the heaviness and stagnation, the angst and the birthing pains as so many who are aligned are birthing New Realities.

This heavy energy is calling us out to see old relationship dynamics and old patterns of previously unconscious behavior that we’ve been carrying around for far too long. And this is happening so we’ll bring these old patterns to the Light so that we can finally let them go.

And so, to have to pay Federal taxes on top of all of this can seem less than inspiring.

In years past, I’ve engaged in a lovely tax paying ritual that helped bring me into full alignment with making these seemingly larger and larger payments.

But that was when I felt pretty good about my government and their role in supporting equality, women and peace.

So this year I knew I was going to have to dig deep…

For the first time in my life I considered not even paying my Federal taxes.

I love my state of Oregon, so they were definitely going to get my money with bounteous kisses and lots of Love. Which is simply one of the many perks of living in not only a predominantly aligned state, but in my Love Territory – I love this land and I have no problem paying the state government with ease.

So I first had to start with a brief temper tantrum of, “why do I even have to pay a government that is so misaligned and undoing years of progress…blah, blah, blah, blah, blah” – you get where I’m going with this, yes?

I don’t want my money supporting misaligned energies for a number of reasons including that I don’t believe killing people is the answer to getting people in other countries to stop killing each other.

I mean, come.on. Haven’t we played this out enough times already?!

And yet, here we all are.

So after floating the idea around that we all rebel and refuse to pay our Federal taxes which pretty much no one I talked with was in agreement to (including my Higher Wisdom), I decided to ask The JOGs how I could find my alignment for this tax season.

First, they told me that the money I was paying to the Federal government was to be looked at as my fee for being allowed to live where I live. I love where I live. Okay, I can start to get behind that…

Secondly, they told me that I could alchemically ensure that the money I paid would go to areas that were in alignment with who I truly am and my desire for this country – namely that we all live in peace, Love and abundance.

How did I forget this?! Of course, alchemy.

And so of course they gave me a wonderful ritual for this, and of course I just finished writing all of the checks and LOVED every minute of it and now I feel totally aligned with the unfolding.

Because Spirit rocks.

I was guided to share this ritual with you in case you too were finding it difficult to line up your energy to paying the United States Government (or whatever government you may be paying) a load of cash.

Tax Payment Ritual

Step 1: When deciding your overall tax payment, ask your tax advisor how your tax payment could be shifted so that less money goes to the government. Duh, right?! AND…for the first time ever I decided to max out my IRA contributions because while that meant more money out of pocket for me now, it was less money now and all year long to the government and ultimately more into my investments. Of course, consult your professional tax accountant regarding your specific scenario.

Step 2: Create a sacred space for your check writing and make sure you are in a good, balanced and aligned emotional state. That’s the only way this will work. If you need support in finding your emotional alignment, I recommend our JOGs Empowerment Guide which supports you in fully working with your emotions and dissolving negative charge by getting to the root of it’s presence in your life.

Set up your sacred space in any way that feels abundant and joyous to you. I had sage burning, was in my healing space wearing beautiful clothes and feeling my full radiant Divine Feminine Divinity (say that three times fast ;)).

I then invoked Source, The JOGs, and all of Highest Light as I transferred money and wrote the checks. You could even put on some kirtan, mantra or ambient music to set the mood. I ended up singing as I wrote while continually invoking the Highest Light to bless me & bless all as I did this.

Step 3: Once the checks are written, hold them up high in front of you, again call on Source, The JOGs, & all of the Highest Light (this is probably redundant as they are already there, but I do this because it feels aligned to me) and instantly I was covered in chills as I spoke these words:

“Please allow that these funds, that this cash-money is only allowed to be used for the Highest Light purposes. Please allow these funds to support equality, women’s rights, and supporting those in need in all of the ways you see fit and that is in accordance with Divine Will. May all of this happen with ease, grace and abundance. And so it is. It is so.”

Step 4: Then I kissed each check and continued to sing my own songs calling on blessings for all who receive the check and all those who engage with these funds. I also called forth peace for the U.S. and all living beings.

Step 5: I had a little dance party to anchor in this ritual and I did so by putting my tunes on random so Spirit could direct me to the perfect song for grounding in this ritual. Jason Mraz’s “Out of my hands” came on. It spoke about how I’m not in control and how now it’s out of my hands. It did this for 3:26 minutes (which equals 11, Divine Alignment!).  You can’t make this shit up it’s so good. Message received Spirit, thank you.

Additional Bonus Step: I hand deliver these checks to a postal mailbox. As I’m walking to deliver them I’m calling on Source, The JOGs and all of the Highest Light to bless where these checks are traveling to. I use Love stamps and make sure the envelopes are surrounded in the Highest vibration of Light possible. I kiss them repeatedly and call on blessings for all.

While we cannot change the free will choices of others and the outcomes that are ensuing on a global scale, we can take daily action filled with Love, Peace & abundance while returning to our Alignment again and again amidst the chaos caused by those in a misaligned state.

The great news is – there is a flushing out of the 3D consciousness (physical plane only, fear, scarcity and survival as the primary operating systems) and so our role now is to stay connected to the 5D (spiritual consciousness – Love, Peace & Abundance as the primary operating systems) so that those remaining 3D aspects within us can be transmuted as well – which will support this flushing out of misaligned energies within all.

And so it is.

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Posted by Heather Kristian Strang in Uncategorized Read More

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Your true mission in life is outlined in this transmission. May it bless you, uplift you and remind you of what is truly true.

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Loving you so!
(And The JOGs!)

Posted by Audrey Gates in Ecstatic Union with The Divine Read More

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Fear is so prevalent that it’s running most people’s lives, and most individuals are literally making the majority of their decisions from a place of fear. Look around our world and you’ll see Fear as the leading cause of all that ails individuals and the collective.

In this transmission you’ll be attuned to a new way of navigating and coming together with your fear. A way that dissolves it as a primary operating system and empowers you to your truth.

If you would like more of these transmissions in your experience, you can secure your copy of Ecstatic Union with The Divine, click here.


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Loving you so!
(And The JOGs!)

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