25 Apr / Couples: It’s time to elevate your relationships to 5D!

Happy Super New Moon in Taurus, alongside 4 planets in Retrograde (Mercury, Pluto, Saturn & Jupiter), cuz you know we like to go big!

Speaking of big, this is a big time for relationships…read on here…

We are in the midst of such a powerful time in consciousness, a time when we are being asked to bring all aspects of our lives into alignment with the 5th dimension, which means living in a spiritual consciousness fully, which means:

  • Understanding that the unseen/non-physical is more “real” than we ever imagined and that we can partner with the unseen/non-physical of the Highest Light to bring in miraculous co-creations.
  • Our primary operating systems are no longer rooted in 3D (fear/scarcity/survival, physical is all that’s real, very “traditional” male/female roles of the woman subservient to the man) or 4D  (psychic energy phenomenas, “magic” that is not clean/aligned, “I can control my reality through manipulating energy & other dimensions”, Twin Flame unions) – they are 5th dimensional – meaning they are anchored in Love, Peace & Prosperity.
  • All of our actions come from this deep knowing of Love, Peace & Prosperity as all that is truly real. We live without lack and in total abundance – regardless of physical manifestations. This is the dimension where spiritual partnerships exist. Where the focus is not about wounds and “healing” through triggers but rather 2 aligned beings growing together in Love, Peace & Prosperity alongside one another.

This current shift into 5D is showing up with a focus for our relationships and you may have noticed there is a lot shifting for couples – many couples you thought would never part ways (maybe yours included) are breaking up and if they are not breaking up, they are going through very, very bumpy times.

In addition more couples are coming together as the call from our Divine Planet is for more Beloveds to align to support this massive shift from the 3D to 5D. However, if couples come together without a foundation of a Spiritual Consciousness (5D), it’s a bumpy, bumpy ride.


Because it’s now time for both the Masculine* (those who identify as primary essence Masculine) and the Feminine* (those who identify as primary essence Feminine) to be balanced within their own energies and live more fully in the 5th dimension.

For so long the Feminine has primarily been leading the way on living in a spiritual consciousness and embodying higher dimensions while in a body. Massive gratitude and blessings to those aligned Masculine who have been doing this intensive emotional and spiritual work not simply in word but in action alongside us!

It is naturally more effortless for the Feminine and those balanced and connected to their Feminine energy to evolve in this way as Feminine energy is Spirit/Source energy. Feminine energy is designed to spiritually be tuned into Source and radiate this essence.

However, the Feminine has been unconsciously enabling the Masculine within herself and in her relationships by not allowing a true flow or union of the Masculine and Feminine energies to be balanced within her and within her relationships.

Often this will manifest as the Feminine energy making herself “smaller,” diminishing her spiritual, intuitive and emotional gifts out of scarcity and survival from old ancestral and previous lifetime programming (“I can’t survive without a man/the Masculine, so I should be grateful to have what I have and keep quiet!”) and thus she has tolerated and allowed herself to be in partnership with herself and with 3D & 4D partners rather than anchoring fully into the 5D and inviting her partner to do the same.

This is because the Feminine has forgotten this essential truth: Masculine energy is created to respond to Feminine energy and carry out the intuited Feminine vision. Masculine energy when aligned is always responding to the Feminine. In this way the Feminine must balance within herself these two energies and then fully embody her true essence in order for the Masculine “outside of her” to do the same.

Some expanded understanding here:

Every Spirit in a body is comprised of Masculine & Feminine energy with a primary Masculine or primary Feminine essence as their leading energy. And so it is of the utmost importance that the Masculine heals his wounds with Feminine energy – within himself and then in his relationships – and thus begins to work with his own intuitive abilities and emotions to bring himself into balance so that he too may co-create with non-physical energy and live from a foundation of Peace, Love & Prosperity, i.e. the 5th dimension.

And the same is true for the Feminine.

It’s important to note here that your partner’s expression of living in a spiritual consciousness may look much differently than yours, this is not about getting everyone to practice and experience The Divine / Source in the same manner.

What matters is that your partner is aware of non-physical energy and works with it in a way that aligns for him/her, and that your partner makes his/her decisions and takes action from the foundations of Love, Peace and Prosperity.

And so now it is time to invite our partners into a Spiritual or 5th dimension consciousness with us.

But first, we must check in to make sure we are there!

**Are we living in harmony with non-physical energy – Source, our Higher Self and our Guides & Angels of the Highest Light?**

**Are we following the guidance from our deeper Wisdom?**

**Are we living our lives in a foundation of Peace, Love & Prosperity and living the abundance and joy that we came for?**

**Are we honoring our Divine Planet and are we Loving and kind to all those who come into our space?**

There is no room for hypocrisy here, we want to be aligned in our Divine truth and then open the door for our partner as well.

Once we are solid in our commitment to the above and living as such, it’s then time to invite our partner to do the same.

Create a ritual for this before taking it to your partner
on the physical plane:

  • Create a sacred space for yourself with white sage burning, candles lit, soft music playing and you dressed in some of your most beautiful clothes. You may have fresh flowers or a plant present and fresh fruits on an altar in front of you.
  • Call in your Higher Wisdom – Source, your Higher Self, and all of your Guides & Angels of the Highest Light. Call in Jesus Christ & Mary Magdalene and any other Beloved couples that you resonate with.
  • Then begin to pray for your partnership to align into a Spiritual Partnership. The JOGs talk more about this in Ecstatic Union with The Divine under the Live in Love section, with a specific transmission about the new paradigm of relationship that we are talking about here. You may wish to read this transmission out loud during this ritual or silently to yourself.
  • Ask that your partnership expand and align into a Spiritual Partnership. Ask that you and your partner create rituals and take aligned actions together that support your growth as individuals and as a couple, that you both support sustainability and care for this Divine Planet, that you both support organizations and ways of being with your cash-money that creates more of a spiritual consciousness on the planet. Ask that your partner open up to his/her emotions and feel them as you also do the same, ask that your partner opens up to understanding the true nature of this reality and that your partner lives from a place of Love, Peace & Prosperity, leaving fear, scarcity and survival based actions, decisions and behaviors behind as you also do the same.
  • Ask that your partner be blessed with Peace, Love and Prosperity and that if it serves Divine Will for you two to continue together on this path living as Love, Peace & Prosperity that it flows with ease, grace and abundance.
  • Then ask that you release all attachments to how this manifests and allow the Divine unfolding for what wishes to occur to occur with ease, grace and abundance.
  • Thank your Higher Wisdom and all of the Beloveds that you called into this space for their support.
  • Meditate for 11 minutes to anchor in these prayers.
  • Sage yourself from head to toe after.
  • Take a sea salt bath after to clear yourself of any resistances or fears that arose as you performed this ritual.

Next, ask your Higher Wisdom to guide you to the appropriate time to have a conversation with your partner about stepping into living in a Spiritual or 5th Dimensional consciousness together.

You’ll want to make sure you have called in your Higher Wisdom to this conversation and have white sage burning before or after (or the whole time!) and have set the environment to be one of Love and sacredness.

Below is some language you can use to open this space up for your partner. It is important you tailor this for your particular situation knowing your partner in the way that only you do.

If your partner is very much rooted in 3D consciousness, you’ll want to invite him / her into therapy as a way to become aware of and comfortable with his/her emotions and intuitions.

If your partner is in 4D reality (like the “new age”) but has gotten stuck in a green juice-yoga-attending- “spiritual”-events-cycle but is not actually living from a spiritual consciousness, you’ll want to invite him/her to begin working with a spiritual mentor or counselor who can support him/her in not just talking the talk but actually living from the foundations of Spirit – which is Love, Peace & Prosperity.

“As you know my Love, our world and the collective consciousness is going through a powerful shift at this time. All of us are being asked to step up and live more fully who we really are in Love, Peace & Prosperity. I want that for us, our partnership and for you and I as individuals. I definitely feel this is something we can become stronger in so that all aspects of our lives are coming from a deeper foundation of spiritual alignment, Love, Peace & Prosperity. What do you think are some ways we can strengthen this for ourselves individually and as a couple?”

Open the space for your partner to think about this topic in a new way and offer his/her suggestions. You may also add the suggestion for beginning to see a therapist/healer for each of you as individuals and/or for you as a couple.

Then, when it feels appropriate, you can add, “I am fully committed to living in co-creation with my spiritual connection (again, use whatever words your partner will most resonate with) and living from a foundation where every decision and action I take is rooted in Peace, Love & Prosperity consciousness. Would you be willing to join me in this more fully by implementing what we’ve discussed here?”

This is a time of bringing all that has been out of alignment with who we really are – which is Peace, Love & Prosperity – back into alignment. Our relationships are an important area for this alignment that greatly adds to our expansion and joy in the world and thus our positive impact on the greater whole.

And that is why it’s so “up” for us at this time.

It is a time of great alignment with the 5D, with living from a spiritual construct. It’s a time of letting go of limiting paradigms of male-dominant/female-subservient 3D paradigms and Twin Flames and other 4D concepts that do not allow the full blossoming of who we really are to be made manifest while in a spiritual partnership.

It’s even silly to act as though this term “spiritual” is somehow outside of who we really are. Living as Love, Peace & Prosperity, in harmony and co-creation with non-physical energy is exactly how we are designed to live (which is why it feels so amazing when we do and then we call it Magic & Miracles but it’s really exactly how we are meant to live!).

May you and your relationship be blessed in True Love, lasting partnership and filled with Spirit – Peace, Love & Prosperity from this expanded understanding and ritual.

And so it is.



If you wish to honor the Wisdom & ritual shared here, you may donate a Love Offering below in the amount your Spirit guides you to.


*Anytime we use the terms Masculine and Feminine we are not talking about gender, we are talking about the energy one primarily identifies with. All Souls have both energies, with 1 as their primary leading energy. This can manifest in any gender identity.

By Heather Kristian Strang in Uncategorized
  • Catt

    Hi Heather!

    Thank you so much for this! I love the way you’ve described these different ways of viewing the world and how it affects the way we do relationships.
    The part I resonated with the most the way the Masculine is acting in response the the Feminine’s intuited vision. This makes so much sense for me as I have been receiving a lot of downloads for visionary energy. I understand that the clearer my vision, the greater follow-through my partner’s will be, so my job is really to stay with this vision, and in the meantime use my own masculine energy to keep the circle moving, and with my partner in the picture I can see it growing greatly eventually.
    Thank you for sharing, I love these pieces with relationships!
    Catt xx

  • Heather Kristian Strang

    Thank you for this share Catt! Yes, we have to start within ourselves first – our Feminine accesses our vision & intuitive guidance and then our masculine carries it out in the world. This would ripple into our partnership with both partners doing this for themselves and then in the greater context of the relationship, this would occur as well, as perhaps the feminine essence partner shares a vision that has been accessed and the masculine essence partner gets to work in bringing it into being. It’s such a beautiful way we have all been created, we have just gotten a bit cross-hairs on how to dance together in a harmonious way. In Spiritual Partnership we understand this and relationship becomes a far gentler, and more expansive and a more beautiful dance. Love to you, Xo

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